I was asked to leave home two weeks ago, and left 3 days ago. I’m with my father now. There’s a certain care and nourishment and genuine concern here. This is where I grew up and a feeling of familiarity exists.
It is also timely because I can talk to him about my new relationship; this is the first time that I am open to him about it.
Mental health isn’t all about introducing new diets and routines; it’s also about removing the triggers that stress you. There will always be people that will need you but won’t be grateful for your help. Those things are beyond us.
What I learned so far, is that it’s always good to help when and where you can and be silent about what you can do. At the end of the day, it’s never your loss.
What is a big house without sincerity and genuine concern? When it’s not broke, don’t fix it. If you help them at a certain degree and they can’t appreciate it, it’s better to leave.
I am always happy where I find myself in life because I make the most of what I have and ask very little of people. I am appreciative and independent. Not everyone appreciates independence.
At the end of the day, I am grateful I have a father. I have a job, I have a lovelife. Here, there is silence. What else is there to ask?
Namaste.